• CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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    6 days ago

    Interesting. I do see that done sometimes, but I always feel like it’s denying the existence of abnormal, which is not helpful when you’re it and you know.

    That’s all true. And a simple corollary is that modern people, including your favourite ones, would do all the messed up shit from history if it was culturally condoned.

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      5 days ago

      You’re half right, but it’s the concept of “normal” that even makes “abnormal” a thing. If you stop believing in “normal” we’re all just people and no one is abnormal cause we’re all just ourselves.

      It’s actually freeing in my opinion. “Normal” is mostly used as a cudgel to exclude those deemed “abnormal”.

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        4 days ago

        Nah, the cudgel is when you get actively, materially excluded from things and opportunities because people don’t get you. I get the intention, but reframing it that way makes me feel erased, not better.