Some of them refuse to learn though

The majority sure, but there are some gems though.

Baldurs Gate 3, Clair Obscur: Expedition 33, Doom Eternal, Elden Ring, God Of War, … for example

You can always wait for a couple of years before playing them, but saying they didn’t miss anything is a gross understatement.

Have you played those games yet?

How do you know whether or not they are fun?