Millennial here. I went back to Canada to help my brother raise his kids. They’re autistic and he’s a shit parent (I don’t normally judge parents but when you wake up at 4pm on a weekend when your kid wakes up at 6am and I’m needing to come from another country to help … then yes, I get to say that).
When I got back there my brother told me I could buy his house (which I did). He was upping his own home and he said we could sell the parents house and downsize them to upsize his own house.
My brother then said that my mom and dad don’t want another house and they’re just LIVING in “my” house now. I’m getting guilt and shit all the fucking time. My brother took a majority of the sale of my parents house so he’s mortgage free in a huge house now.
I’m single in my 40s and now I’m waiting to see my retired parents die. It’s slowly killing me.
Dad’s dead. Mom’s a bitch. I’m in the clear.
I don’t give a shit whatever culture you hail from … We are not responsible for our parents.
Millennial here. I went back to Canada to help my brother raise his kids. They’re autistic and he’s a shit parent (I don’t normally judge parents but when you wake up at 4pm on a weekend when your kid wakes up at 6am and I’m needing to come from another country to help … then yes, I get to say that).
When I got back there my brother told me I could buy his house (which I did). He was upping his own home and he said we could sell the parents house and downsize them to upsize his own house.
My brother then said that my mom and dad don’t want another house and they’re just LIVING in “my” house now. I’m getting guilt and shit all the fucking time. My brother took a majority of the sale of my parents house so he’s mortgage free in a huge house now.
I’m single in my 40s and now I’m waiting to see my retired parents die. It’s slowly killing me.
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I disagree. We have as much responsibility for them as they displayed towards us.
No. But, you do you.